Sexuality is weird and complicated both with and without an A preceding it, but sometimes labels help.
Sexuality is weird and complicated both with and without an A preceding it, but sometimes labels help.
…the pieces all fall into place and you can’t imagine ever not knowing what now seems like the most obvious thing in the world: you’re asexual.
In The Stumbling Dead, there appear to be no romantic or sexual relationships within the Horde, but the friendships every zombie forms are incredibly strong and devoted.
For the first time in my life I had an answer other than "broken" for the way I experienced the world.
But in retrospect, I can see why this game spoke to me: it validated a part of me that I did not yet know existed.
I look forward to the day when I feel more comfortable saying the words out loud: I’m asexual.
It’s something that is often assumed, and not often discussed: the stereotype that people with disabilities do not have sex or have conventional relationships.
I’m so much more complicated than our neat, simple and tidy words can describe, and maybe we all are.
We should not be bombarded with messaging that tells us that we are missing a prerequisite to fulfillment and life satisfaction, and that there is something defunct within us.
You’re asexual. It’s more complicated than that, but it is something that finally feels yours.
“Let's say there's a kind of dessert that's everyone's favorite but yours.“
Not wanting sex or possibly never having it doesn’t make me or anyone else less than or broken.
I want to tell this story because people, especially in Peru, believe that the spectrum of sexuality is only about straights, gays and lesbians, when it really goes beyond that.
You never knew how important it was to see yourself reflected on a TV screen. You've never felt so heard, seen, validated, and loved. You weren't imagining your pain; it's real to others too.