When I say that I’m asexual and attracted to men, I’m often perceived as simply being in the closet or afraid to admit that I’m “fully gay” or “want to have sex with men.”
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The Ace Side of #MeToo
I did not want it to seem that I was broken, unloveable, or that I somehow "grew incorrectly" and was therefore incapable of a relationship.
Navigating Toxic Masculinity as a Demiguy.
Toxic masculinity is still clouding my gender vision. I feel in my soul that I am a non-binary, but I cannot deny that this conclusion remains constrained - pushed and pulled by the toxic masculinity that has always surrounded and regulated my life.
On Motherhood, Nuclear Politics, and Other Related Topics
“My body will be empty, and I will be asexual. My body will create a whole new person, and I will be asexual.“
"You just haven't found the right person yet": My asexuality isn't conditional
When asexuality is unconditional it becomes far more difficult to confront, understand, and accept as legitimate.
Who is oppressed enough to be "queer enough"?
Gatekeeping functions as a constricting and silencing force to certain groups that may be perceived as on the "fringes" of queerness…
